Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Never Goodbye


All of our lives are the continuing building and breaking of relationships.  Some relationships last for decades while others last less than a year, maybe only weeks.  I am not only referring to romantic relationships, but relationships with friends, family, peers, teachers, mentors, and co-workers.  If anyone has ever graduated from high school or college, one quickly finds that some relationships do not last.  I keep only with a handful of people from college and I just graduated, even less people from high school.  It’s funny to think that the only thing that kept you close was that you spent time around each other in the same setting.  Once you are no longer in that setting the friendship fails to endure.  Grow apart.  Fall apart.  Fall out.  Whatever you want to call it, it always happens.

Over the past few weeks I have been able to connect with several friends and mentors.  These images are but a few of the dear friends that I was lucky to see and spend time with over the past few weeks.  How my heart filled with joy at being able to spend what little time I could with them.  My dear friends, although I am no longer in college or high school, I desperately wish I could spend more time with the people that mean so much to me.

Some friends I was able to spend hours with while others I was only able to converse with for a few short minutes.  What a blessing it is to have friends.  People that care for you and have your best interest at heart and are there to support you in the victories as well as in the sorrow.

It makes me terribly sad to not be able to spend more time with the people that I so thoroughly enjoy and care about.  I wish I could spend more time with them, but then something came to mind that this is not the end.  We cannot spend forever together on this earth.  People have to go back to their homes, to their jobs, and as much as they may care for me there are also other responsibilities that demand their attention. Yet, there will be a day in which I never have to say goodbye or go months without seeing and spending time with my dear friends.

These dear friends, mentors, and I have something in common.  We believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior.  It is because of this that when we all pass from this earth and are in heaven we will never have to say goodbye again.  If an overwhelming joy fills my heart in being reunited with my friends while on earth, how much more joy will I feel when I am in heaven?  Perfect bodies, no more sin, no more pain, and being able to experience and give a perfect love to every single person.  Every relationship has its problems because imperfect people who sin are in those relationships.  You think you have a good relationship with someone now?  Imagine never having to deal with the small issues, as well as the big issues, and arguments that come with a relationship.  Not only this but also being able to fully revel in the most important relationship of all: my relationship with Jesus Christ.


It was this that put my heart at ease.  Even if I cannot spend, as much time as I would like to with friends, there will be a day in which my time with my friends and family will never end.  I will continue to pursue and enjoy the relationships that I have on this earth, but knowing how much better it is going to be in heaven makes me all the more anxious to be there with my precious Savior.  The only way to heaven is through Jesus.  I pray that I see you there; because it is better than anything this world could ever offer.